It’s not my fault you have a low self esteem. Really.
“Oh if you achieve too much, men will be scared to marry you”
Of course I am not worried about intimidating men. The type of man who will be intimidated by me is exactly the type of man I have no interest in.
How many times do I have to say I am not on earth to validate a man with low self esteem?
Yes. I see it as low self esteem.
Why for heavens sake will a man be scared of a successful woman?
That’s just plain being a hater!
It is in simple terms- THE SPIRIT OF WITCHCRAFT!
God forbid I tell my Sons they can be president and then tell my daughters to only aspire to be the president’s wife.
It makes no sense.
You shouldn’t prevent a girl from reaching her dreams just cus you feel she MIGHT step all over your penis.
The sad part is most females are the first to give this advice just cus you know, they are looking out for you and your ovaries, with your biological clock ticking and all that.
Hence, the undue number of articles like;
- How to get a man
- How to keep a man
- How to catch a man and keep him forever
- How to make a man propose to you in 3 easy steps
- How to be a wife material
- Ways to know if you caught the right man.
Get it together desperado!
A lot of people I know, feel I think this way cus I am closer to 20 than 30.
Trust me, I love LOVE. I smile so much I can eat a bannana sideways when I occassionally watch telemundo. I love happily ever afters.
Regardless, I am
not sorry I don’t feel like a girl should only aspire to marry, give birth to children and then join the association of married women with only two purposes-making sure their daughters get married and hating on women who have actually achieved something.
I do not belong to the “I don’t need a man AKA men are scum club” – at least if not for anything, I need someone who can actually reach the shelf without climbing a ladder.
Disclaimer: I am not a short girl!😏
I’m just saying you shouldn’t settle! You know the whole:
“I’m in my husband’s house so I’m better than you” talk?
This cheap talk is so common in nigeria my fist hurt from punching people in the face. (Okay I don’t exactly punch them. I just do it mentally😃).
Have your own thing going. Gone are the days when women only aspire to marry. These days women support their husbands with a lot of things even the bill.
Ladies arise and grind! (wow….😆”Arise and grind sounds so cool to me😏).
You can be successful and still be a perfect wife material. I know a lot of men who prefer ambitious and successful women. Different folks, different strokes!
There’s no greater pillar of stability than a strong, free and educated woman, and there’s no more inspiring role model than a man who respects and cherishes women and champion their leadership
Some men feel every woman is waiting for a man to marry them and make their lives start and all unmarried women have shitty attitudes. Sorry to burst your bubble Adam, we are not waiting with our wedding gowns. Okay maybe some females are.
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- Do you think men feel intimidated by successful women?
- Have you noticed this is in nigeria or your country?
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