Hello ladies….Are you getting ready for a date with a guy or just hanging out with friends?
There’s something you should take with you – VEX MONEY!
A Caribbean term for the extra bit of money a woman will carry with her on a date. The amount usually covers cab fare or the bus ride home, and/or including her half of the date bill just incase the cheap mofo won’t pay.
Some ladies have been put in really absurd positions simply because they thought the guy will do the spending.
I’m not saying Y’all should just pay the bills to tell him how independent you are (although it may come to that) but you should be financially prepared to split the bill if need be….you should have a nice time knowing that if the date goes sour you won’t be stranded or have to trek home.
Vex money is your emergency money!
Some ladies have had to clean eateries to pay for the food they ate cus the guy couldn’t afford it and bailed or the date wasn’t just going the way he planned.
Most times, vex Money might not be needed at the end of the day.
But for your safety, self worth and pride, never go on a date unprepared.
Going out without your vex Money is simply a recipe for disaster. You might have to put up with abuse cus you don’t even have bus fare to leave before things get worse.
In the words of Clare Boothe Luce;
A woman’s best protection is a little money of her own
Trust me there’s this feeling of independence you’ll have when you know you are in total control….you can even order what you want because you know you can pay for it!
You won’t have to put up with trash💯. You’ll stay cus you are having a nice time and never ever because you will be stranded without him.
when you look back at that experience you’d thank yourself and me😉….cus you, my dear, will be proud.