I once had a friend who was an extreme extrovert. With me being an introvert, I don’t have many friends and I keep the few I have in the inner most part of my heart and guard them jealously.
She was so free spirited and easy going that all my other friends became her friends but I couldn’t form a more than “hi-hello” relationship with her friends.
For weeks she’d be out of reach and I’ll go to her apartment countless times to find her all to no avail and maybe 1 out of 10 times, I’ll find her with a new friend. That friend will be sitting and perhaps gisting in coded english so I don’t understand.
I’d feel uncomfortable and leave.
It is never more than 2weeks before she comes searching for me and telling me how horrible that person was and how she is now avoiding that person.
Say 3days later, I go to her apartment and find that same person now lying on her bed and they are seeing a movie together, giggling and eating popcorn from the same box!
Seriously? Now I am all shades of what the fuck?
I expect her to say “oh, you can put your gun away. We made up”
But hell no! she shuts up and acts like she didn’t say anything about that person.
and the cycle continues.
I have a fault in all this cus I never told her I hated the annoyingly dominant unpleasant attitude.